Ego is the killer of life, love, nature, God...just everything that makes your life 'live'.
Shastras, Gurus, , parents preach to eradicate it.
But like elephant's tusks which are just for show off , not to chew.
Similarly todays society, role models, our parents don't preach to practice. Simple and straight I have been noticing the kids who are being raised embedding ego as their self respect.
What??Its dangerous.
Today in India, the daughter group who are gonna be mothers of the first born child to them (age group 25-30) yeah,These are those group of woman who have been counted in their family, very well educated , a group of daughters, whose mothers were not that highly educated but very potent learners, and these mothers have set their mind set to put all the weapons of a winner in the arsenal of their daughters. and hence many of these girls have been performing better than an average boy in the school, they have been sent to university where they have got a graduate degree or master degree in management, tehnology or some other subjects, but these degrees are being sold in the international market like hot cake. Their payments are high, They are performing very well, they are reaching to their full potential, and they are getting the best proposals possible, but still incapable of being in love with someone. They are looking for God, for they are being goddesses, who don't forget and forgive. They are the achievers. They are achieving more than their boy friends, husbands, x-husbands, and the eligible propsing men.

Their self respect has gone higher than Man's ego.
These woman are truly becoming incapable of falling in love with men. for they have never fallen in love with their father, since their mother was a very capable woman, a fast learner, flexible, beautiful, more understanding their fathers, in many a cases more educated than their fathers, but has been kept as house-wife, never let go out to work and earn.

This is the era, when I am seeing men are being woman and woman being men, many men are going outside to earn, if not another country then another state, where they are cooking for themselves, washing their clothes, and shopping for themselves.

Men are becoming more pateint and woman being more expressive, I should rather say they are becoming more agressive.

The 'to be mothers' are very uncomfortable with their bodies, but still they pretend as if they are not. and they rather cover the uncomfort with more and more make up.
Policies at work don't give leave to women during their menstrual cycles.
They also dont mind, as they have been attending the classes in those tough days.
and I have noticed the woman of the same age group fearing to bear a child, they can't survive without a maid to keep the house.
Its not that they cant keep the house neat and clean, or they dont know how to keep it that way. Its just that they like to be served, they dont want to keep themselves in more pain than they have been gifted by nature for two-three days.

My observations are rarely wrong. I have found out a pattern, that the woman who don't touch any work during their menstral cycles, they are less fearful to bear a child and very active in house hold works, they have least desire to be served.

In sort I am gonna apply this policy of giving women leave during their first two days of monthly cycles. I will post the results.