I have lived in three states of India, and have seen the culture of two families, since I am married. There is clearly vast difference.
Also with friends I have got to know a bit of the culture of their families, and I am a mentor, I come across a lot of kids, growing ups and adults.
Two days ago, a student of mine expressed that he thinks with money come a lot of problems. others supported and when i asked them, why do they think so, they mentioned that saints in the temple say those kind of things in their pravachans, also they mentioned the name of the Gurus who say the same sort of things on different channels on T.V.
So I decided to have a discussion, and asked them a set of questions to connect their very minds to think and feel the truth.
Over my years of experience, one thing that I have felt about children that they possess triple personalities unlike the adults {they possess just two}
1. The Naughty
2. The Parrot
3. The Self
In their Naughty personality kids mostly make fun of each other and laugh.
To my surprise all the time their fav jokes either start with or end with Farting, potty or peeing or the contents a of running nose.
Without any exception all growing ups find the reproductory organs, the unsolvable mystry of the world.
Second, the Parrot, Kids look, sound and preach exactly like their elders. They don't remain in that stage forever.
X X X
and last one 'The Self' - cruel and clueless {ignorant Not innocent}
Ever noticed the child killing the ants? {is it not the very basic nature to Love? }
The child wants to feel the world, thats how he dares to touch the fire. Children are vulnerable to death as much as they are prone to Life .
As they grow up they realize that they can't taste and touch everything and as soon as they start learning to speak. and they will point at anything and ask and master the names of the things.
With all of their bad experiences with this world, they start getting satisfied just with the name of the objects.
knowing the name of the object is not Knowing that thing, but that's where it starts, the kid starts compromising. When we were kids we most certainly did not have capacity to know, but we Dared to know, to feel. But as we grow up and have the capacity to know, we Stop daring.
The compromises become the Life-style.
Also with friends I have got to know a bit of the culture of their families, and I am a mentor, I come across a lot of kids, growing ups and adults.
Two days ago, a student of mine expressed that he thinks with money come a lot of problems. others supported and when i asked them, why do they think so, they mentioned that saints in the temple say those kind of things in their pravachans, also they mentioned the name of the Gurus who say the same sort of things on different channels on T.V.
So I decided to have a discussion, and asked them a set of questions to connect their very minds to think and feel the truth.
Over my years of experience, one thing that I have felt about children that they possess triple personalities unlike the adults {they possess just two}
1. The Naughty
2. The Parrot
3. The Self
In their Naughty personality kids mostly make fun of each other and laugh.
To my surprise all the time their fav jokes either start with or end with Farting, potty or peeing or the contents a of running nose.
Without any exception all growing ups find the reproductory organs, the unsolvable mystry of the world.
Second, the Parrot, Kids look, sound and preach exactly like their elders. They don't remain in that stage forever.
X X X
and last one 'The Self' - cruel and clueless {ignorant Not innocent}
Ever noticed the child killing the ants? {is it not the very basic nature to Love? }
The child wants to feel the world, thats how he dares to touch the fire. Children are vulnerable to death as much as they are prone to Life .
As they grow up they realize that they can't taste and touch everything and as soon as they start learning to speak. and they will point at anything and ask and master the names of the things.
With all of their bad experiences with this world, they start getting satisfied just with the name of the objects.
knowing the name of the object is not Knowing that thing, but that's where it starts, the kid starts compromising. When we were kids we most certainly did not have capacity to know, but we Dared to know, to feel. But as we grow up and have the capacity to know, we Stop daring.
The compromises become the Life-style.
