It is not recently but for many years I have silently been present in the Talks of 'Boasting one's sense of fashion - being, and the integrity of existence'. Sometimes with my relatives, other times with my friends or colleagues.
Every now and then I found people talking about their unique tastes!
It's not bad, just that sometimes its too much.
Why this hankering to be extraordinary, to be someone, some thing?
Now you may be wondering that why this bothers me. It doesn't bother me, It amuses me rather.
I see these women who want to become extra ordinary, they indeed become extra ordinary mainly by suffering rare diseases like physical, mental or social disorders.
I wonder whether they attract such unique things to them too ? the same way they attract beautiful dresses, shoes and handbags.
Why can't one be satisfied being ordinary, here i am not saying ordinary means you be the part of masses. To me, Ordinary means accepting, natural, being a little easy when you see someone else carrying the same purse as of yours. Don't simply just dump yours to prove your uniqueness.
May I conclude that women are more egoistic than men?
I sometimes think of telling this to those young girls who are loosing the bliss of 'lady-ness', What they reveal to me is that for them Gracious means branded, and appealing means fashionable. Buddy I tell you , The generation is in little trouble.
But then I continue to keep my silence, because it is Their choice, to accept the picture of the world painted by parents, leaders, priests, friends and role - Models.