The world, where Compromising is a Life Style.

I have lived in three states of India, and have seen the culture of two families, since I am married. There is clearly vast difference.

Also with friends I have got to know a bit of the culture of their families, and I am a mentor, I come across a lot of kids, growing ups and adults.

Two days ago, a student of mine expressed that he thinks with money come a lot of problems. others supported and when i asked them, why do they think so, they mentioned that saints in the temple say those kind of things in their pravachans, also they mentioned the name of the Gurus who say the same sort of things on different channels on T.V.

So I decided to have a discussion, and asked them a set of questions to connect their very minds to think and feel the truth.

Over my years of experience, one thing that I have felt about children that they possess triple personalities unlike the adults {they possess just two}
1. The Naughty
2. The Parrot
3. The Self

In their Naughty personality kids mostly make fun of each other and laugh.
To my surprise all the time their fav jokes either start with or end with Farting, potty or peeing or the contents a of running nose.

Without any exception all growing ups find the reproductory organs, the unsolvable mystry of the world.

Second, the Parrot, Kids look, sound and preach exactly like their elders. They don't remain in that stage forever.

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and last one 'The Self' - cruel and clueless {ignorant Not innocent}

Ever noticed the child killing the ants? {is it not the very basic nature to Love? }

The child wants to feel the world, thats how he dares to touch the fire. Children are vulnerable to death as much as they are prone to Life .
As they grow up they realize that they can't taste and touch everything and as soon as they start learning to speak. and they will point  at anything and ask and master the names of the things.
With all of their bad experiences with this world, they start getting satisfied just with the name of the objects.

knowing the name of the object is not Knowing that thing, but that's where it starts, the kid starts compromising. When we were kids we most certainly did not have capacity to know, but we Dared to know, to feel. But as we grow up and have the capacity to know, we Stop daring.

The compromises become the Life-style. 

Take it easy

As November approaches, It brings memories of the most wonderful gifts, I ever un-wrapped. I never fantasised that Love has to last forever. It can't, It shouldn't.
But in complete submission, Miracles happen; the recognition of the souls - entertwined.
Possibility is that Self-Talkers become the Bloggers. It's quite a vent out for people like us who come up with the best answers when the examination is over.

There could be nothing more embellishing to life than some idle time every now and then; had a chance to go on a journey within and to find that how miserable I am, and the amount of misery I was to attract.

I realize that I like to please, in order to be Not Unpleasant. Since I remember, I have been living according to the time table and the commandments  prepared by my well wishers {The parents, the relatives, the friends, the parents of friends, the friends of parents, the whole web of spectators, Shall I call them a pannel of judges? }

The pressure of living by an ordinary life has increased so much that I started feeling trapped, and wished to close myself in my castle. But its neither safe nor satisfying inside. I find content-ness in oneness, with the Subject and the Self.

My journey within has got me to a destination I never thought I would disembark at , Its called Nowhere, and I have felt there is no purpose of life, but to Live, to Love and to Let.


The journey is more about loosing than finding anything, and I take it easy.